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| by domestic engineering |
Wednesday, October 24, 2012
Friday, October 19, 2012
Others Perception and my reality with my IBS.
As most of you know I have active IBS. Which means that some days can be better or worse than others.
As other people see me they think I am completely normal person with no problems what so ever. That could be so. Usually people only see me on my good days. A lot of the time they haven't seen me on my bad days when I have to stay close to the bathroom or how I don't eat because I have the nausea to go along with the bad colon day.
Then I started to think that are we all that way in life. Do you all have a certain perspective in life because we don't see the real person or don't want to see the real person and want to know only the good news and not really hear or see the bad?
It's like if we show our real self the one that is struggling with a physical, mental or emotional thing that we fear others will turn away because we are all suppose to hang on to the outward perception that everything in my world is fine.
Denying our feelings is like denying who we are. There are good and better ways of expressing our feelings. To completely deny them is to deny ourselves and who we are as a person.
Yes I would rather have all good days with my IBS. I also am starting to appreciate the bad days so that I know how much sweeter the good days are.
As other people see me they think I am completely normal person with no problems what so ever. That could be so. Usually people only see me on my good days. A lot of the time they haven't seen me on my bad days when I have to stay close to the bathroom or how I don't eat because I have the nausea to go along with the bad colon day.
Then I started to think that are we all that way in life. Do you all have a certain perspective in life because we don't see the real person or don't want to see the real person and want to know only the good news and not really hear or see the bad?
It's like if we show our real self the one that is struggling with a physical, mental or emotional thing that we fear others will turn away because we are all suppose to hang on to the outward perception that everything in my world is fine.
Denying our feelings is like denying who we are. There are good and better ways of expressing our feelings. To completely deny them is to deny ourselves and who we are as a person.
Yes I would rather have all good days with my IBS. I also am starting to appreciate the bad days so that I know how much sweeter the good days are.
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